There's an excellent article on spiritual abuse by Gary Engler, formerly of the ICoC, at http://www.barnabasministry.com/recovery-uncovering.html
. Here's a sampling of some of the issues he tackles:
* Not Everybody May See the Abuse, But That Doesn’t Mean It Isn’t Real
* Diverting Attention
* Blame the Victim
* Does God Sometimes Use Abuse for Good?