There is a range of responses to the concept of some sort of reconciliation with UBF. Some are open to it, others are absolutely sickened by it. I tend to fall more into the second group, but I'm willing to discuss it.
There are some thoughts about a reconciliation with another abusive group by its former members. You can read these thoughts at the following links: link 1, link 2, link 3.
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