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Silent Sufferers 
11th-Jan-2006 03:00 pm
Hi everyone, I have not ever posted on one of these sites before, but I have read everything I could find about UBF on the internet. I've read postings from several current UBF supporters say that there is only a very small group of people who oppose UBF, and they are just very vocal. This is not true. Viewers, please understand that there are MANY people hurting, who oppose UBF, but who cannot make a big commotion for the sake of our loved ones who are still trapped in the system. That doesn't mean that we don't keep up on the organization or want its ministry stopped. One of the saddest things about UBF is, if someone is in the church and their family objects, they are encouraged to reject their family and remain loyal to UBF. So many people choose to suffer alone in UBF itself or to hold out for loved ones still in the church. Maybe someday I will have the freedom to post my own testimony on these websites.
12th-Jan-2006 04:52 am (UTC)
Hi. What a wonderful way to identify yourself as "FreeinChrist"!

Thanks for sharing. I am sorry to hear about your loved ones. May God bless you and answer your prayers for your loved ones. I know that there are many who have suffered and continue to suffer because of UBF, not only personally, but within their families. In my situation, I am thankful that after many years, my husband finally left and we are in a healthy church, where we are healing and growing. At the same time, my heart breaks for those who are either suffering from the consequences of being in UBF and/or still suffering in the system because of a spouse and/or children or other family members still in UBF. It is terrible what UBF does to one emotionally, psychologically, and spiritually, and also what they do to their families, particularly if one tries to leave. While me and my family are out and recovering, those in UBF and the future of UBF remains a burden on my heart and in my prayers daily.

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