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19th-Jul-2006 06:18 pm
Reading Joe Grady's testimony that has been placed prominently on the Chicago UBF website reminded me what UBF "training" does to people. The art of UBF leaders' "training" is not only to manipulate people to do what they want them to do, but at the same time making the trainee believe this training is their expression of "love" and now they are eternally endebted to the "trainer." Quote from the testimony:

As a growing disciple, I was trained in various ways through message delivery, drama performances, testimony sharing and serving CBF. I also received a great deal of training from Little Sarah ... I will always be indebted to her for her labor of love.

That's where they want people to have, that's what UBF leaders would call a success story and what they want to be written in testimonies for others to imitate.

I believe that 1) it is totally wrong of Christians to "train" with personal trainers in the sense of UBF, and 2) that it is totally wrong to make others become "indebted" or somehow loyal to you.

"So neither he who plants nor he who waters is anything, but only God, who makes things grow."

"Freely you have received, freely give."

Not everyone should be a teacher. And even if you are a teacher, you can only plant and water, not "train". And even if you can plant or water, you cannot be proud of that or expect others to "pay something back" to you (money, time, loyalty and obedience, as demanded in UBF).
20th-Jul-2006 12:26 am (UTC) - They Abused Me Because They Loved Me
Maybe it is because they believe that when they received painful training, it must have been also painful for the shepherd to give such training, so he/she loved the trainee so much?

When I went through Humbleness Training for nine months, my "trainers" stated the following:

1. Giving me training was hard for them - a burden for them. They said that they suffered more because they bore with my pride.

2. It would be easier to just leave me alone, but they love me so much that they want to train me to be a Humble Servant of God.

The trainers convince the trainee that they suffer because they have to give training through endless indoctrination. Koreans and native shepherds share numerous testimonies about how they bore so much to give one word to a stubborn cultural-Christian, easy-going sheep. Other UBF leaders would always tell me what a great sacrifice my shepherd makes to raise me as a campus shepherd. Eventually, sheep are convinced that no matter how much they are abused, their shepherd must have done everything out of love for the sheep.
24th-Jul-2006 06:10 am (UTC) - Re: They Abused Me Because They Loved Me
Maybe we can say that Joe Grady has become a really "humble" man of God through UBF training who obeys his coach absolutely? I mean, he has become a spiritual giant through UBF "humbleness" training?
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